Tuesday, September 23, 2008
If I have to listen to one more friend over analyze why the guy she flirted with Saturday night didn't call, I am going to burn my fucking ears off.
I thought at 40, I would be over this shit but no. Seems so many of us are out there looking for permanent relationship number two that we have reverted back to asking if we think Joey from 4th period pulled our pigtails because he likes us.
I am beginning to think many women can talk themselves into anything. To me, if you meet a gentleman, you have a nice time, he asks for your number, you give it and he doesn't call,it means he simply didn't want to get together.
Apparently I am wrong and needed to be corrected. Mr Right didn't call because of one of the following reasons....
He is too scared of being hurt in another relationship.
He is insecure and doesn't want to make the first move.
He really wants to call but he is intimidated by strong powerful women in general.
He's been burned before and wants to take it very slow.
oh and the dreaded..
He must have lost my phone number.
The worst part of this is sitting around while women commiserate with one another and agree that one or all of these is probably the reason for the rejection.
I've been out in the dating world and one thing I know for sure....if a guy is into you, you'll know it and won't have to make excuses for him.
If you're waiting by the phone for days, it is time to toss out that rancid pork chop and find yourself a new one.
We can say "his loss" but why the fuck can't we BELIEVE it?
Posted by Christine at 11:58 AM